Tuesday, January 13, 2009

From" Ms to Mrs"

I write this post on behalf of all the ladies who are going to get married or are soon going to bite the dust in a course of time. But the thoughts are purely mine....empathies and sympathies are accepted.

As the D-day approaches, the shopping list has crossed the boundaries, guests lists are piling, packing, visits to beauty parlor, phone calls, relatives, insomnia, nightmares, gymming, dieting....an insane show show all along...

Suddenly I wonder how can phenomenons like "Recession" & " Inflation" happen together. hmmmm.... Despite of Mr Raju's confessions, decline of stocks, defeat of the political party and making holes in the pocket....My family gets ready for the "Marriage of the century" ....
Its fun, joy, happiness, ( also fights, misunderstanding, Pauper"ly" feeling) for them
but???? how does it feel to be the bride??
Some generic ones would be" Aren't u excited?" OHH u might be in the dream world forever??" Ohhhhh how cute?? How sweet??" " so r u counting the days?".....Yeah right....M counting my days....well yes it is rude....I am actually tired of being Ms Congeniality...
How do u feel
a) when u r thrown out of ur home?
b)When ur loaded with responsibilities?
c) Asked to make adjustments with life?
d) Be a devoted cook and look after the mess??
e) No more sight seeing?? well understood...
Phew!! well I see hands raising ?? and Ladies lets all face the truth...मेरी फट गई है !!!!

Pacifying myself to face this reality, I seek to see the silver lining of the dark cloud....Yeah it would be unfair if i don't mention the love, attention*, gifts*, positivity, and of course a loaded status from Ms to Mrs....

Last words from a Spinster like me would be........" Your Place or mine???" Ditch it...."

* Only for a limited span nevertheless to mention...:P